Thursday, July 23, 2026

Manifesting chill passive nurturing

Parenting is an art and science, much like the metamorphosis of life. So many versions to adopt from and constantly learning something different, chucking ideas aside when it didn't work, and exploring new plans. 


Hard work fo'sure but super rewarding when everything lines up.


I'm working on my reaction, less is more.



Click here for the inspirational Instagram post to hear their captured exchanges.


This dyad was gathering flowers to show dad when the vase holding the flowers slipped from her but she caught the flowers by a stroke of luck.

The mum's reaction was super cool.
Yeah it happens indeed.


I have watched videos of this nature multiple times and it's very inspiring. Growing up I've never quite gotten into trouble for accidents like these. My mum doesn't shout or yell but she'll low key stew and chastised my clumsiness or mistakes, while fixing it, eventually softening up amidst my sorrys and telling me to be more careful next time. As a young child, I was fully impacted by her mild reaction as I expected to be scolded and more. I want to go one step further and embrace accidents with grace and love. I can tell you it's not easy as I am mostly reactive, not passive by any means.


But I want my kids to know they can make mistakes and I'll still love them.